You may be familiar with the term "December to May" romance - a relationship with a significant age gap where one partner is much older than the other. "May" represents youth and "December" represents old age.
I've been thinking about this metaphor as it relates to houses. All of a sudden it seems that my "empty nester" buyers (December) and my younger home buyers (May) are falling in love with the same things. Turns out need a lot more December to May houses!
Many of my downsizing clients simply want a smaller, more condensed, easier to manage version of their larger home - and presumably with a smaller operating cost that allows them perhaps a second home, or a more generous travel budget. Their ideal home won't force compromise on the important stuff - AND just happens to have the same amenities sought by my younger buyers.
1. WALKABILITY - Young families don't want to be beholden to a car for every coffee run or casual dinner out; turns out neither do empty nesters who are often returning to a more urban lifestyle after raising a family in the suburbs.
2. A GREAT PRIMARY SUITE - Both groups want closet and bathroom space that feels scaled similarly to a much larger home.
3. OPEN CONCEPT LIVING - Space to entertain, including a dining room large enough to entertain family and friends for special occasions. Empty nesters want to host grown children and grandchildren. Younger buyers want to be able to host Thanksgiving and/or game watch parties with their friends.
4. A KITCHEN WITHOUT COMPROMISE - Preferably with an eat-in breakfast area. And of particular interest is a scullery/prep kitchen for the messy stuff for their ideal kitchen, which is most certainly open to living space.
5. SOME OUTDOOR SPACE - Empty nesters and younger buyers alike want enough outdoor space to entertain and kick a ball, but not too much. Empty nesters are over the maintenance; and the budgets of younger buyers prioritize convenience and access over lots of property.
6. A MAIN LEVEL BEDROOM - Older buyers want to avoid stairs; younger buyers are thinking about hosting older family members and love the idea of a main level bedroom suite that works as a home office. Older buyers want additional bedrooms on the upper level to expand into as needed.
7. RENOVATED - Everyone is "open to a project" until they start looking - young and old alike get depressed by the time and energy required of large scale renovation.
8. NATURAL LIGHT - It's one of the first "must haves" on every Buyer list, no matter the age.
9. EASY FLOW BETWEEN INDOORS AND OUTDOORS - A single door to the back yard can be a deal breaker for both buyer sets. Easy access is the name of the game. French and "accordion-style" doors are high value amenities.
10. GRACIOUSNESS AND SCALE (in fewer rooms): Empty nesters want the scale reminiscent of their prior "BIG" home, younger buyers tend toward a more open and less formal floor plan organized around fewer, larger rooms.
Those downsizing in their 50's, 60's and 70's aren't slowing down. They're just changing gears and priorities. A huge home can start to feel like a job, but they aren't ready for a small, starter home or condo. These "goldilocks" homes - generally not exceeding 5000 SF - provide empty nesters with a newfound freedom. And it just so happens that younger buyers busy with careers and young children are prioritizing the same things.